Do I tell his family?
I, am new here. like many others, I have a long "story." To sum it up for now, my DH has been hiding and swigging from booze bottles off and on for ten years. I'm guessing it was probably mostly on, and I was too busy to look for it or didn't notice during certain times. I have never mentioned anything about it to his family (mother and sister) as there is nothing they can do about it. I also felt like that would be a betrayal to him. Things are coming to a head now, and my tolerance of the situation is changing; I have changed. I'm now wondering whether I am making the right decision in keeping it quiet???