Originally Posted by
hearthealth 
I stay optimistic also because it is better. It is still so hard. It takes a lot of my energy and stress to change the things that are wrong. I still catch myself doing things that I shouldn't have to. I try to be nice person and it gets me where? I was reading how stress effects memory. While he's a *** behind close doors and everyone likes him because he's social, smart and all of his other good qualities.
HH, I have been catching up on your situation and can relate! I have done the same and received the same results. It’s a constant roller coaster. Nice, nasty, nice, nasty.....
The “closed door” really hit home. This is something that has driven me crazy. We could be with neighbors and he is funny, kind, and cordial but then boom, go inside and somehow between walking from outside to inside, I have done something wrong and the nastiness flies.
My heart hurts for you, knowing how it feels to be the recipient of such awe-fullness. Stay strong! Sending hugs!