Thank you of the support. Just to make clear, there is no tolerance for driving under the influence, specially with my daughter in the car. She won't be driving her anymore no matter what. That has been established already. So, please, don't write that I am not concerned or indifferent about it. Is just not a true statement.
I cannot control what she does when she goes to and from work, and will not take responsibility for it.
As for getting divorced, we love each other very much still, even though I am furious with this situation. The love my daughter has for her is immeasurable and it hurts me the idea of breaking the family.