Originally Posted by
sweetichick 
Don't know what to say. A lot of honest truth there. I just wanted to leave my brand new car to someone who would appreciate it. No guilt intended.
SC. If this is about wanting to leave your car and house to your kids, then you can just sort your will out so that's what will happen in the event of your death. They don't need to be part of the will writing.
If it is about wanting to be appreciated by your kids, then perhaps the answer isn't anything to do with wills. What do you think they really want from you? My guess would be a sober and present mum who they don't need to worry about.
As far as your neighbour goes, he's sad and looking to porn for instant gratification. That's HIS look out. Focussing on his addictions and problems won't ease or remove your own. First things first SC.
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