To me, moderation was a constant negotiation with alcohol. Some times it was successful, some times not. The not increased over time.
I can have this many, but will need to stop before making a fool of myself.
I can have two, but must stop because I have to drive.
If I have more than three, I'll be too hung over at work tomorrow.
Daily drinking is OK if it's two or less, that's just European. Four or more is an alcoholic if done daily. 3 can go either way.
It all became very tiresome. Drinking is supposed to be fun and a social outlet. Moderation just became a chore.