Of course they do - that's when they hit rock bottom. Did you read the thread about the frog?
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...ad.php?t=71964
That happens to As too.
90 meetings in 90 days is, I believe, a rehab thing not an AA thing. And there are speaker tapes available. In fact, there are Al-anon ones too at
www.xa-speakers.org