For your own sanity, please get rid of the tracker. Exactly, what could the tracker inform you of , that you already don't know? Your post clearly states that he does not have self control, or self respect, and no amount of cooking, cleaning, taking care of him is going to fix his addiction. Continuing to track him says to me that you need one more affirmation to confirm what you already know. Trust your judgement, relationships are supposed to enrich lives , not destroy them. Write this one off as life lesson learned, and get back to adding joy and value to your own life. I can confirm what you already know, he is not the one for you. Take care of you.