Originally Posted by
bobdrop 
Back to day 3. I guess no one has an answer for my previous question.
I haven't read any of replies,but for me; I HAD to figure that out on my own. We've all had different upbringings and life choices/situations that 'may' have got us here. Even genetics!.. I just finally had to accept that whatever "IT" was is in the past and I could not control it then,so what's the point in trying to now? You've now seen that you can't control your drinking on your own. Make a plan and 'work it' like you'd work a job that was providing for you and your(s) is my opinion. It's a damn hard thing to do,but has been done. It's not impossible.