I can't help but think it's always about them. It always about the alcoholic. It's like he of all people has the ability to do the kind of 180 that flies in the face of all my plans. Good, bad, he flips the script on my life in an instant.
Only if you give him the power. What you focus on increases. When you stop pointing the finger and realize we're the ones who must dive into recovery, that expands.