You can if you see an ad like this, "opt out" and say you would not like to see them anymore. I think the vast majority of folks that are at a point which they feel they need to moderate and not good candidates. Years ago I followed a Moderation forum as an "Abstient" person. For the majority of those that were attempting moderation, it seemed a heck of a lot more trouble, work and effort only to miss their goals repeatedly and suffer concequences. I think for most and know for me abstinece is the "easier softer way. I just chuckle now when I see anything that seems to encourage me to take a drink as it is just ridiculous to consider.