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Originally Posted by kvp138
I couldnt decide if I should lie and say I was low on money this month or to be blunt about what I really thought.
Lying only creates a second, unnecessary problem. I've learned that "No" is a complete sentence, and an important one as well. Perhaps your friend needs to experience the consequences of her unhealthy choices. If she never does, why would she ever change?
Originally Posted by kvp138
I even had the crazy idea of trying to convince her to leave her husband and marry me as my army benefits might cover the costs of drug rehab.
Soooooooooooooooo glad you realize this is crazy talk! :slaphead