Getting detoxed is nothing more than removing alcohol from one's system.
It is not a plan of recovery.
I suggest that you go to AA and that you work the program by getting a sponsor, working the steps, reading the literature, working with other drunks and meeting people who have succeeded in getting and staying sober (so you can emulate them).
The choices seem to be that, ardently pursuing some other program of recovery or being found dead in your home.
Please keep us posted - we want you to succeed.