He will also say threatening things. While he isn't physically abusive, he put his hands on my throat one time and has done things like punch me in the arm a few times
that IS abuse. laying hands on you in anger is abuse. hands around the throat is an indicator of the harm he is capable of. please do not dismiss this. please allow yourself to accept that this is an abusive situation and that you need a SAFE exit plan. things WILL get worse. he is volatile, dangerous and will harm you......not might......WILL. his abuse is an upward spiral.
here is the number to the National DV hotline....
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