It's simple but not easy. Simply, you need to stop drinking. Medication may help, but you need to make the decision that alcohol is no longer an option, ever. It's always best to talk to your dr before stopping drinking, or to be prepared to go to an ER if things get bad. I know it's hard to see your way through, but if you take a look around here, you will see that many of us have managed to do it, and you can too.