Dear TD
When my ex and I met 30 days ago to draw up the divorce papers, we hugged each other and said we loved each other. Many times people love each other who shouldn't be married.
I absolutely and totally understand your feelings, because I have them too!
I have to congratulate you on the sane, lucid manner you are protecting your kids. The way I se it, you are doing everything right. You aren't letting your decisions be made by your emotions.