I think it's fairly common to feel shame in the early days. I know I did. What I learned is that the shame wanted to lead me back to drinking. You must try to move on from the shame, focus on the positive. I understand your discomfort in asking housekeeping to remove the alcohol from your room. But, the point is you did what you needed to do to stay sober and that's fantastic! This was a positive experience. And, the time will come when you completely stop noticing the mini-bar in the room.
