Originally Posted by PhoenixJ

Nic- people who are 'normal' cannot and will not understand addiction or the amount of hard grind it takes- where a second goes on forever in fighting ourselves in stopping. I have learned that I cannot control others and just expect others to do what they will do. I have just finished up a visit by 2 nice, damaged people who are at the same stage- housing wise in this very intense recovery program. One had just bought booze to watch the crows (football - Aussie for others)game tonight and the other still smokes weed and boozes. They both still engage with others who are actively into addiction. But I let them in and distanced myself and concentrated on me...that I was safe and their behaviour does not have to effect me...although I am emotionally numb at the moment. I enjoy them when they are normal..but I have set my own boundaries..for me. I know you did- but others will do as they do. Support to you.