update....I tried to talk with her yesterday. It didn't get heated or turn into an argument, but she said extremely hurtful things, and I'm in a bad place right now. I just don't know what to do.
I've ruined her social life, I trap her, now I want to take drinking from her, she new our relationship was bad from the start, etc, etc, etc.
This coming from the lady of my dreams. She used to love to tell people that she finally met the man of her dreams, nobody has ever
treated her so good. etc.
aliciagr, I never recognized there was a serious problem and I partially blame myself for not seeing it. She's my best friend and I want to help her soooo bad. My vision of an alcoholic was my father and i guess i was in the dark with it.
I enjoy a drink, but i can take it or leave it anytime. I've gone years without having a drink. It's not a necessity for me.
I'm just lost, i don't want to give up on her. I don't think i could honestly. But something has to happen.