Originally Posted by
noturningback2 
i m working my recovery plan properly, not letting myself slip for a moment. Not getting lazy, or feeling that its a good day, so i don't need to do that part of the plan today etc etc. i read here before 'you need to put more effort into being sober than you did your drinking'. And that is 100% true. Its the best advice i had read. You can make all the recovery plans in the world, but if you become slack, or over confident they are worthless.
I think everyone is different. For me I have done this solo. No AA, No plan, No support. I have no desire to drink, or ever drink again. I woke up one day and said enough. I am confident in me. That is all I need. Day 71 today and feel a whole new world is opening up. Coming from a member who drank for over 30 years!