Old 08-30-2017, 07:18 AM
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hopeful4
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My opinion is that three weeks is NOTHING. Not to negate his work he has done so far, but for myself, it's actions over the course of a long time, no words. And three weeks is just not long enough.

There will always be chaos. There will always be someone who does not pay, death, sickness, etc. Many alcoholics use those things as their trigger to start drinking again. I would need to know that is not going to happen.

I encourage you to take this time, separately, to work on your own needs. To get face to face support that you deserve, and keep the focus on YOU.

Gentle hugs.
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