Welcome, Gabe. And- I really strongly echo what Dee said. To be even more blunt- I would not go. My sobriety is the single most important thing in my life- more than even, say, my fiance. And- one BIG lesson I have learned is that the world - our families, nothing- simply does not revolve around us and we NEVER have the impact we imagine, to the degree we imagine it- or if we do (or people make us feel like it) , I have learned that it is THEIR problem- not mine.
Again....what Dee said.
Best to you for good decisions for your sobriety. Hope to see you here- often, and if you do go on this vacation- and still sober.