Welcome Sam,
This is a great forum for support during the early days. I never labelled myself as an alcoholic but in the back of my mind I knew I had an alcohol problem. It was the only thing that motivated me, getting home for a drink ,waiting for 12 o'clock so I could have a drink . That soon turned into 11am. All day weekend binge I told myself it was ok because I work hard and I deserved it. In the blink of an eye 9 years of this behaviour had me exhausted and forgetful.
Long story short , in may I decided to get off the crazy train , I have had a slip but still determined and it's a lot easier now. I don't want another 9 years and another...it's never too late for anyone as far as I'm concerned. Good luck to you friend. Wishing you all the best!