I have NO control over my family for
what they say, what they said, what they
did or what they do. No control and I had
and have accepted that fact that last time
I spoke to them.
Today there is NO contact with them. Period.
Sure that sounds awful to some but that's
not my problem, its theirs. Period.
I have my own life, recovery, sanity,
peace of mind to deal with and associating
with people, (family, friends), places, or
things has no place in it anymore.
I would hope that you can find a healthier,
solid solution to deal with this situation
for you and your daughter and move forward
or away from the madness that is associated
with family and the past you have no control
over and get into some major acceptance
for your own peace of mind, health and serenity.
Of course this is my thoughts and what
has and still continues to work for me.
Placing them into my HP's hands is
the best thing I could have ever done
in my own recovery.