Originally Posted by
swingout 
@AnvilheadII... that's a very thought-provoking question.
Reading back, I don't think I phrased the statement around her parenting well. Regardless of her drinking, I believe she is a great mother, and I completely trust my wife around our child. I know she would never place our child in danger, and I am unaware of any time that she has been drinking around them in an uncontrolled manner (sure, she's had a wine at lunch, etc).
I know if I did not trust her with our child, I would be doing everything I could to protect them.
I honestly don't know how to answer your question yet.
one thing i wonder,with having found hidden vodka bottles around the house, is if there may be some denial going on here and shes not only drinking at night. could be drinking more than just at night.
this:
"she has a certain kind of accent when she's had a few drinks".
could possibly be " a few drinks that im aware of"
??????????