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I know that not all the husbands who have a drinking problem cheat. My husband is an alcoholic and he did more than his share of cheating when he was into going out to the bars and had more energy to keep up with the whole crazy life he was living. We have been married 25 yrs. and now he drinks at home. When he gets drunk he passes out on the couch and that is the extent of his fun night. He used to beable to drink hard liquor with his friends and now he sticks to beer.He'll say" I am getting old". After all those years of drinking a person does have a reason to age alittle faster.
I think he finally came to the realization that the cheating game was just the wrong game to play and only led him to MORE trouble than it was worth.
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Take care,
matters