Three weeks is not enough time to change anything. If you don't want to stay, don't stay. I didn't listen to my gut and made the mistake of marrying my AH. Now I'm experiencing grief, age, and depression. I wish I could turn back time.
Originally Posted by
Sheis2nice 
My boyfriend went away to a 21 day program. He is due to return home this coming Tuesday. Lately I have been having real bad anxiety due to his return. His roommate was able to sneak a phone inside and he's been texting me from it today. From the way he's been texting me NOTHING has changed. I deeply feel he's going to go right back to his old ways. I can't continue to live the way l was prior to him leaving. He's very toxic & nasty! It's been so peaceful without him here and knowing he's coming home on Tuesday which doesn't make me feel any better. I don't want to stress like l was. I want to be supportive to his sobriety if that's what he plans on doinv. Please someone give me some inspiration on how do l move forward in a positive way ?