Hi Sweet!
All I hear is you worrying about others... your girlfriends? Your "best friend "?
You have posted a lot about this man and you know what we are all telling you about him is true. Why are you allowing him to treat you this way? Ugh! He sounds terrible! Do not ALLOW this.
What's more important? You and your wellbeing or this man? Your wellbeing or "standing up" your friends?
Dig deep. Your heart is going to tell you what is right and what is wrong so look past all the fuss and focus on you and what you want and need.
Learn this lesson. Tweak plan. Move forward.
We are here for support.