Sasha- Thank you. I do not plan on giving him any money/cash unless cleared by the lawyer.
Last night I discontinued the auto deposits that I was making into our joint savings account and am putting it all into my own personal savings account which I kept since we were married. In some way, I felt bad about having to do that, but also relief. We haven't really been partners in a true sense for the last 3 years and all of the money that has been put into that account has been from my earnings anyway, but he's been taking money out off and on to pay for bills which he can no longer cover from his paychecks (hasn't had a steady full time permanent job for almost 2 years-- and pay has been halved at least- but of course I have no idea since he won't tell me what he brings home). I don't think going out every night and during the day is helping.
I'm also making vacation plans for me and our child.