Another thought. in case you can't get off a bit early, how about going more nights to Al-Anon and an open AA meeting maybe once a week. ??
Just a thought.
I noticed with me, if I disliked something at first glance, I ended up happy with it.
(That was people, work, meetings etc.)
Then, if I at first thought wonderful, that is whene did not turn out well.
Does that happen to others??
Best of luck gal. You will adjust.