I'm sorry you had such a negative experience at that meeting. Not all meetings are a good fit for all ppl. I've had something like that happen as well, where the chair simply couldn't follow the 10th tradition. After not taking my sublte hints a few times I finally got up and walked out after telling them how I felt. I haven't been back, so there's nothing wrong with avoiding the meetings that don't help your recovery. I hope you find one that really works for you! =)