Originally Posted by
witchx27 
AnvilheadII - thank you so much for this. Its really struck a cord. There has been a lot of 'you are perfect' 'I think I might love you' etc since he started bingeing. Obviously they mean very little from someone under the influence and I haven't taken them seriously.
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actually, those words can mean alot. ive said it because they would allow my behavior and take care of me before,during,and after a drunk. that made them perfect.
im sorry you took offense to saying youre sick.
i was referring to the untreated codependency. i was pretty sick myself at one time.
i also have depression, which is being treated accordingly.
imo,"sick" isnt a label.