Estranged from my addicted husband
It's been over two months since I last saw my husband. I left to get sober and he shut me out of his life.
I'm just wandering if this happened to anyone else when they became sober. I want to rationalize him shutting me out, but I know from being an addict myself there no rationalizing anything we do while using. Trying to rationalize is driving me up a wall.
I feel like I'm in limbo with my marriage. The silence hurts and reaching out with no response and no explanation why is worse than hearing they don't want to be with you.
How do you put something like a marriage behind you when you have no closure and they refuse to see you or speak to you? How do you keep moving forward knowing you may never understand the reasons for it? How do people wake up and not think about how much it hurts?