you now have a six year body of work to review - let's say this was his resume for possible longer term relationship partner or husband. in your mind, when thinking of what YOU want, where do the following rate?
1) i like to drink, often and a lot
2) i like to spend a lot of time in bars - and a lot of money
3) i like to order stupid sh!t off the internet
4) i have no savings and no plans for the future
5) i won't be able to commit to my partner very much, see 1 and 2.
6). i refuse to grow up. my name is Peter Pan, no Wendy's allowed.