Originally Posted by
Kassir 
Hey guys,
So now i've been around 3 months sober and i was invited to a nightclub party. I was wondering if it is safe to go ! And has anyone tried clubbing wihout alcohol, is it still fun ?!
I attempted to go to a few bars a couple of months into my sobriety and successfully did so without drinking, but it definitely was not fun. It was certainly eye opening as I realized how loud, obnoxious and generally annoying I must have been back when I was drinking.
My rule of thumb is that I go places and attend events where drinking might also be taking place ( restaurants, weddings, graduation parties etc )...but I do not attend events where drinking alcohol is the primary focus. Bars and nightclubs would fit in that category for me - they are places that exclusively exist for drinking alcohol, and i don't drink alcohol anymore.