I'm in for another 24!
Congrats to all the milestones! FBL, wow. 8 years plus is amazing!
4 years, 5 months today. I'll take it.
No, I can say from deep experience that there's no horrible situation out there that drinking can't make far worse. If you face this clear headed, you will get through it and heal. If you drink, you won't face it and you will not be able to heal. It might be impossible to see it that way from where you are sitting, but it's the absolute truth. Lean on sr, post as much as you need, and you will get through it.