Hi again Missus. You didn't post in the wrong place - you went to where you go until someone comes along to point you in the right direction.
I've not got long now to post (off to the pub for dinner), but there be loads of people along to welcome you. They might be from the other side of the Pond, but don't hold that against them
Read the "sticky" and "power" posts at the top of this forum and the nar-anon one. There's loads of good stuff in there.
Catch you later.