I concur with others on this, Andagain. I loved and agreed with your OP until the last line. SR is IMHO, not a place for sober people. It's a place for people trying to get and trying to maintain and learn to live, sober. To me, SR is like a medical rehab clinic. You don't say you'll stop in.....after you've been well for a week. You stop in especially when you are feeling sick. Your continued sobriety is dependent on having the most support you can. You may feel embarrassed, but you have not done anything that I would venture a guess, 99.9% of everyone on this board has done. I know I have. So don't stay away and if you do, and are having a hard time coping, login and ask for help!