Ugh, that is annoying you haven't seen them, I'm sure you want to get this done and overwith. But it is good you have had time to cool down. I do think you are wise to speak to them about it face to face. A text can come across wrong, you can't convey tone of voice, body language as you mention. Yes, definitely a conversation to be had in person. Good luck, I hope you see them soon so you can move forward.