Hey everyone. Unfortunately I have not seen any of them. I'm totally ready to approach the situation and I'm definitely using the 3 positives and then the bad-news approach from Mera. That approach will help me with all kinds of situations in life and help me to not be confrontational sounding or too blunt. I was thinking about sending them all a text but I think that given the delicate situation of being a neighbor that it Would-be best to be in person so that my body-language can signal that I'm not angry I'm just concerned and have a right to want my privacy and hopefully they will understand. Also I was angry I was completely livid when I found that they were all using my pool in my absence without my permission. I'm glad I had a chance to cool-down from that but it's good that that happened because that will be my sounding board to approach the whole situation.