So how'd it go Sunshine? I hope it wasn't too bad and that your anxiety has died down.
I read a kind of silly blog thing today on FB talking about what women need to do more of. But it had some important points that we all know but need to remember. They are also good tips for men, not sure why it was only directed at women. Two of the points that made me think of you were Start saying "no" when we need to. And the other was Stop apologising for everything. No need to apologise about needing your own space and wanting to use your own pool privately. It is also ok to say no.
Thinking of you.