Originally Posted by
Courtcd 
Should I be supportive or just leave after. Scared and alone.
I will speak for myself.... (as a recovering alcoholic).
YES,... It is 100% possible for a person to quit drinking and be a loving and caring person.
BUT, if the person is not capable of being gentle and kind, loving, provider, family man, etc....(sober or otherwise)... then you need to do what's right for you, your child and new baby on the way.
Why not be supportive and see how it goes.... But if you are already thinking about leaving him. Only you can make that decision.