Originally Posted by
gerbel And it sounds like more recently my mother in law has taken a much firmer stance when people bring it up. She either threatens to leave my father in law or she'll tell my wife she won't provide daycare anymore.
I'm looking for any advice on how to approach her and figure this out.
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imo, thats not taking a firmer stance- its taking hostages and setting the ransom. if it escelates like anything my drinking did, there will always be a new ransom to be met
best advise i can think of is
take lexiecats advise.