OK, just a suggestion--if you'd like to run anything by me, do it before the end of next week--I'm gonna be out of commission for the most part for a couple of weeks after that. The order still strikes me as very odd. If the only thing the court thought you needed was a custody/visitation order, it would typically simply deny the order and have you proceed in family court for the custody/visitation. The only thing I can think of is that maybe the judge thought your child needed protection but not you? It's really weird.