When husband poured out his beer, I dumped out my alcohol in the house. He said I didn't have to do that but I was freaked out just thinking of drinking in front of him. Or the feeling as though I had to hide it. I didn't mind doing it but I also missed an occasional glass here or there. As time went on it got easier.
Talk to husband. IMO, in the early stages of sobriety don't drink at home. Drink at social occasions that don't include him. Sobriety is a change for both of you.