Is this the sort of thing you would post to a woman who is married to an alcoholic?
Yes. I say it a lot on here. I did leave 10k behind. In fact I lost a whole lot more...nearer 400k and that was from a marriage not just a job. You can get a new job if you want too but if you'd rather stay and suck up the continuing drama and abuse for 10k then carry on. Am not sure why you posted cos people have given you good advice and you have dissed it and come off as a bit rude tbh.