Originally Posted by
Maudcat 
Well, this is a problem for you.
You have to stay? Really?
I would leave, redundancy or no.
Nothing is worth staying in a toxic drunk environment where the drunk has power over you.
Is this the sort of thing you would post to a woman who is married to an alcoholic?
Why don't you just leave?? I wouldn't stay, no way etc... thousands of pounds??...and?
Very judgemental and shows no empathy or insight.
Perhaps you can leave ten thousand pounds behind and walk away with your handkerchief of clothes on a stick but I'm not in a position to do that.