I know I should just focus on myself and ignore the negativity. But it's very frustrating. She has in the past just taken what he says to her about me at face value and actually eggs him on saying I'm acting like a b and that I'm a bully. That's how she thinks she's being supportive of him. This is after she's found out he's lied to me about drinking and other things. I just don't feel like I owe her anything including access to my life and my child. He's trying to get sympathy from the two people who he's told me have hurt him the most: his mom
And his sister. Ugh. I need to get away from this toxicity.
Signing the retainer and sending the check is step 1.