Story of my life. I was there a hundred or more times. Then I had what is sometimes called a Moment of Clarity, and I knew that I wasn't going to get a whole lot more chances. Chances for a good, long life; my romantic relationship; and with my own dignity. I made up my mind almost nine months ago that I had had enough and it was now or never. And I've stuck with it. As can you. Heck, if I can do it, anyone can!