Toots, I agree with everything you said and distance is already helping. It used to be impossible for me not to respond - hence the constant fighting. Running definitely is my life saver and I've recently discovered yoga - all helpful. Plus am so busy with work at the moment which is a good thing.
It's so helpful to know that you (& Sass) have been through it and have come out so much happier and fulfilled.
Toots, how are your parents doing?