I appreciate the responses! I value all of the input. After speaking with my sponsor, therapist, family, etc, I'm still being metaphorically punched in the face by this every single day. I live with this man. I can't just say "hey I need a time out." Maybe? It's hard because we don't have open and honest communication. I do, but he doesn't. I tell him everything and he just kinda listens. He's so nonchalant about the whole thing, it makes me wonder where he stands.